Showing posts with label Sharing Story - Experience Wife (Cheating Husband). Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sharing Story - Experience Wife (Cheating Husband). Show all posts

Monday, September 20, 2010

Sharing Story - Experience Wife 2 (Cheating Husband)

My husband constantly cheats
Experience Wife 2 (Cheating Husband)

My husband and I have been married for 9 years. Out of those 9 years he has cheated on me during 8 of them. He has cheated while I was pregnant with both my children and even left me when I was pregnant with the first one and attempted to sleep with a prostitute when I was pregnant with the second one. I have taken him back over and over, many times without any explanation or apology from him. A year ago I found out he had cheated with a lady he worked with. I forgot to mention he is a truck driver and is gone all the time. He met this lady at the driver school and they began to have an affair. When I found out about the affair it had been going on for 5 months.

I had some suspicious before I found out but he always denied it. He always says he doesn't know why he did it when I confront him about it. After I ask him several more times he always find a way to blame me by sating he couldn't talk to me, our sex life is not spontaneous or that he has lost the desire to be intimate. After this last affair I told him I wanted a divorced he broke down emotionally and begged me to give him another chance.

Since I had never seen that side of him and he started to open up more and apologized repeatedly I decided to give it a try. He promises me that he would stay away from the porn and that he would never cheat again. I accepted his promises but not without caution and suspicion, I mean I had heard that before. I thought we were working things out good. We were communicating better, we started praying together nightly, and we always told each other we love him/her before getting off the phone.

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Sharing Story - Experience Wife 1 (Cheating Husband)

Experience Wife 1 (Cheating Husband)

This is my first post. I just recently found this place and would like to vent a little. I have been married for nearly 7 years on September 27, and I am not sure if we are going to make it. My husband started his "innocent" internet flirting several years ago. When I confronted him about it, he would stop for several months until I would catch him again. However for the last 3 years he has been on a rollercoaster ride to destruction. When I discovered him going into chatrooms and instant message women, I installed a im sniffing program on my computer. At first I used to read the messages, now I usually just look for certain words. 

For the last 2 years the only anniversary gift I have asked for is for him to commit himself to me and stop cheating. He does not consider the internet sex as cheating and feels that I have blown everything out of proportion. One of his internet "girlfriends" has been with him on and off for 5 years. I feel that he has a more emotional and physical connection with her than he does with me. I truly want to save our marriage, but I don't think that it is possible anymore. He has totally forgotten his vows to me and tells me that he doesn't want to leave some of his girls because he feels sorry for them.