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Experience Wife 1 (Cheating Husband)

This is my first post. I just recently found this place and would like to vent a little. I have been married for nearly 7 years on September 27, and I am not sure if we are going to make it. My husband started his "innocent" internet flirting several years ago. When I confronted him about it, he would stop for several months until I would catch him again. However for the last 3 years he has been on a rollercoaster ride to destruction. When I discovered him going into chatrooms and instant message women, I installed a im sniffing program on my computer. At first I used to read the messages, now I usually just look for certain words. 

For the last 2 years the only anniversary gift I have asked for is for him to commit himself to me and stop cheating. He does not consider the internet sex as cheating and feels that I have blown everything out of proportion. One of his internet "girlfriends" has been with him on and off for 5 years. I feel that he has a more emotional and physical connection with her than he does with me. I truly want to save our marriage, but I don't think that it is possible anymore. He has totally forgotten his vows to me and tells me that he doesn't want to leave some of his girls because he feels sorry for them.

The important signs of a cheating husband - PART 2

If your husband was suspected cheating, you will feel that something is wrong, but I can not really put my finger on anything specific. If there is a saying that "if you think you are cheating, probably, you notice something going to help. The following information may give information to your spouse as well as tips on how to lose.

Phone mannerisms are different:

Your partner or spouse ...

• Get the "mysterious" phone calls.
• You will receive an increasing number of hang-ups or wrong numbers "when you pick up the phone, especially if the caller hangs up after hearing your voice and speech disorders. Generally, when someone chooses a.." Bad "results, at least ask: "Fred there?" before hanging up (but not always).
• Phone bills that show unexplained toll or long distance charges.
• A hastily accepted the call to answer first.

The important signs of a cheating husband - PART 1

So let me give you some subtle (and not so subtle) clues that must be considered if it is your spouse or partner unfaithful suspicious. Although none of these "red flags" automatically means that they cheated, should be considered to determine whether further investigation is warranted as possible indicators of deception.

In general, what is the point that the change in behavior. Therefore, let some of the behaviors that you can see if your love was untrue:

Strange behavior at home:

Your partner or spouse ...

• Appears away to show a lack of interest or develop an unexplained gap.
• He is often tired or lack of interest in the relationship.
• Come home smelling like a perfume unknown.
• Wears cologne more frequently than usual.
• Comes home and goes straight into the shower and tub.